kissing

saturday is here once again and im realizin that i got too much time on the weekends and im worried that when school is out ill be bored out of my shizzle.

so next topic// kissing

i LOVE to kiss. kissing is HOT. but kissing should ONLY be done between two people who care about one another. its very very intimate and youre so close to the person. kissing is way better than sex. its f'in HOT! i dont think people should kiss other people if they dont actually feel anything for them. like in the movies /pretty woman for example/ vivian doesnt kiss on the mouth cuz its too personal. thats what im sayin cuz it is. notice to all guys who read my blog/ if u kiss a girl and dont really want to be with her/ ur just plain cruel. its mean cuz the girl is gonna think that u want to be with her. and by be with her i mean love her/ im not talking about having sex.

specifically/ kissing should be slow and soft. now it can be forceful and aggressive but it shouldnt be rushed. its hard to explain the difference but i hope that makes sense. absolute passion should be in every single kiss.

as hard as it is to get a good kiss/ itd be harder after a failed kiss. so these are my tips/ in no particular odrer.

1. dont eat onions or garlic before u plan on kissing unless ur kissing partner has eaten the same things.

2. some people like dry kisses/ some people like wet kisses/ either way dont kiss when uve got cotton mouth.

3. it is often ok to use a breath mint or some gum before u kiss but make sure its gone before u kiss otherwise ur partner may get a surprise.

4. be confident/ pick the right moment and go for it.

5. always tilt ur head to the left first so u dont bump noses. this is the most common starting point. some people then pivot left and right but it is not necessary and can be very passionate either way.

6. if its the first time to kiss this partner u should start out with closed mouth kisses/ then move to open mouth kisses/ then move to tongue kisses. dont just jump to tongue kisses immediately cuz u will surprise ur partner.

7. french kissing // avoid making circular motions /like swirling/ur tongue. also dont just shove ur tongue in the other persons mouth/ u may make them gag and that would not be pretty or sexy. dont let ur entire tongue go in the other persons mouth either/ they have one of their own they dont need urs too. ur tongue should just gently massage the other persons.

8. dont eat the persons face. yes open ur mouth wide and move together with ur partner but u dont need to suck their face off or nom nom nom their face.

9. hands // at least one hand should be on the persons face or head. gently rub their cheek or massage their head //most guys dont know that a head massage is very sensual and erotic. ur hands should always ALWAYS be touching the other person/ whether thats touching their face the whole time or rubbing their neck or arms or massaging their ass/ just remember to rub and massage and NOT grope.

10. occasionally while kissing you should just kiss solely the bottom lip or solely the top lip of the other person. sometimes even a gentle bite or nibble is nice.

11. it is even ok to lick the other persons teeth. in fact some people are really turned on by this.

12. necking and hickeys // discuss hickeys with ur partner cuz some people are embarrassed by them and some people like to show theirs off cuz it means they have been kissing someone. necking does not and should not be like a hoover vacuum cleaner. open mouthed kissing is fine as is a little licking. however /most people go not like to be slimed or slobbered on!

13. all in all if it feels right ur probably doing it right. but it doesnt hurt to ask ur partner if what ur doing is making them feel good or if u should change anything. most girls will tell u when they want something to change.

ok so now im all hot and bothered and i wish i had a bf to take care of business /if ya know what i mean.

check out these utoob vids that i think are just HOT HOT HOT!!!

french kissing



and a rembrandt toothpaste commercial /// one of the sexiest things ever is when a girl and a guy put their foreheads together and just smile at one another.